...said no Mother ever!
I was thinking about this the other night as I was dicing avocados, calling out science questions and encouraging the little girls to "jump in" the bathtub. In between breaths and many attempts not to chop off a finger, I pondered on the fact that this was supposed to be a smooth day. I had canceled all my morning plans, so I could work on things around the house that desperately needed my attention. After dropping the kiddos off at school I had a full 6 hours and 15 minutes to get everything done in order to set us up for a successful afternoon and nighttime. How and when exactly things turned completely crazy is unknown to me. Here's the breakdown:
3:00 Greet Ethan and catch up on his day. Victoria had a football game she had to play for (band).
3:20-3:50 Pick up the little girls from school.
4:00 Greet Christian and hear all about his day. He had a big science test!
4:30 Snacks and homework begin...cue western chase music. *Christian had time to eat and quickly change into his football gear.
5:00 Christian left for his football game. Mike and I kissed hello/goodbye and they were off. Thank goodness for my husband! I don't know what I'd do without him!!
5:00-7:00 Homework, dinner, and baths. All were going on roughly at the same time (except dinner). Addie decided this was a good time to shave the front part of her leg; thankfully not her face, which is what was first reported to me by her sister. I had stopped calling out test questions to Ethan to assure her that we all make mistakes, but not to do this again. I must admit, it was slightly funny. From the age of 18 months Addie Pie has never failed to keep me on my toes.
7:30 Ethan took a break from homework to hear about Tori and Christian's game while I took the little ones to upstairs to brush, read, and sing.
8:30 Ethan and Tori are at their homework. Poor Ethan had so much!! It was painful to watch him work so hard with zero time to just sit back and relax. I was helping him cover his notebooks while Christian was reading to Daddy. Victoria was filling me in on her day.
9:00 Christian was in bed and ready to be tucked in. (I simply love my nightly tuck ins. That's when they really reveal what's in their heart. I pray I never take this time for granted.) Ethan was wrapping everything up.
10:00 I said goodnight to Victoria and stumbled up the stairs. After my shower, I crawled in bed to a sleeping husband. Just to wake up at 5 and start all over.
It's strange. I thought when this school year started I would have so much time on my hands that I would actually be bored. I actually believed I would have plenty of time to meet with friends, get very active with church activities and the children's schools. So far, it has been just the opposite. I am never bored; I am thankful to participating in A Bible study and am happy to be able to send things in to the children's school. With that being said, I have made it my priority to be done with everything by the time school is out. Sometimes my to-do list is complete, but most of the time it's not. However, I make myself available to my kids. This year has been a big transitional year for every single one of them, myself included. Although some days feel a little crazy and most days I feel I'm forgetting SOMETHING, I am confident my efforts will pay off in the end. Dr. James Dobson says it wonderfully:
"There is a higher calling...Raising children who have been loaned to us for a brief moment outranks every other responsibility. Besides, living by that priority when kids are small will produce the greatest rewards at maturity."